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14-Aug-2017 08:25

What if their routinely righteous sentiments and actions—though certainly ?

What if their words and deeds belie what they’re actually thinking and feeling—and don’t, in essence, “capture” who they truly are?

A person (almost always a female) who tries to be as good and "clean" as humanly possible.

She is more often than not a staunch conservative and takes pride in her virginity and her practice of abstinence.

Can be nice but eventually begins to lecture you about your "sinful" lifestyle and just becomes a pest.

Such a convoluted assertion might seem a little peculiar, perhaps like a semantic game, or a verbal sleight-of-hand—but it's not.

In fact, however commendable, what they display to the world may be best identified as a self.What if there’s a darker side to them, or at least a far more self-centered one, which they’re simply too afraid to divulge?However honorable the self they scrupulously “adopted” during childhood, such a carefully cultivated (pseudo-) identity may yet conceal thoughts and feelings that would hardly be viewed as admirable.She is definitely a God-fearing girl who always goes to church every Sunday, and indeed, based on the way she dresses, she looks like she's going to church every day.

She cannot abide it when people cuss in front of her–the most extreme goody two shoeses faint when hearing foul language–and of course she would never consider smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or having any physical contact with a boy beyond holding hands or perhaps a kiss on the cheek.I’ll elaborate more on the origins of this paradoxical phenomenon by referring to several clients whom I’ve worked with over the years—whom I’ll “condense” into one: As a girl, "Margaret"—by the way, this abnormality in child development seems to occur more often in girls than boys—felt compelled to decipher how best to “be” with her parents, who were extremely religious.